Often we ask ourselves "Is this what I feel this is the love?". The answer is not so simple. The feeling of love can be nothing more than an ordinary infatuation another person. A lot of people very quickly and just as quickly falls out of love. Others, however, we do not have a problem. It is very difficult for them to fascinate even the most wonderful person in the world.
One of the most confusing feelings associated with love is desire. The lust of another person is very strong and intense mental feeling rooted in human nature.
Typically, the desire for a person, we do not know well. Fantasize, and imagine different things, different situations associated with us and your loved one. Very often, people confuse love with lust is. Why? What is shared in love and lust that so easy to confuse these two very different emotional states?
Lust is not love. Love is something more than physical and mental attraction to another person. Of course, the attraction is one of the first and fundamental elements of love, but true love goes much deeper. Love is based on taking care of each other, friendship, commitment and trust. If you're in love is to feel like at his side was always the best, trustworthy friend, which also would feel a physical attraction.
"... Love is patient, love is kind. Love is not jealous, not pompous, not lifted up with pride, do not allow rude, not seeking, not easily angered, not resentful, it does not rejoice in wrongdoing, but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never ends ... "1 Corinthians 13: 4-8)
Love is a complete dedication to his heart to another person, knowing that this person will take care of it not better, than we do. Love makes us want to become better people, never has a destructive action. Love is the only positive feelings. If anything makes that we have doubts about our feelings usually this indicates that our experience is just lust, friendship or infatuation.
It is not easy to determine what our true feelings, let alone what the partner's feelings about our people. However, there are few signs of a fact that love flourishes and becomes stronger. If you agree with seven of these nine-five statements, to say that this feeling is probably your true love.
Check if you are in love
First You know it's love, for friends and family told you they're nicer, smile more often and have noticed that radiates happiness with you.
Second The object of your love interest make you feel special and wonderful. Are you happy with the what / how you are.
Third If you feel jealousy, that feeling quickly passes. You trust your partner that will never betray and destroy your relationship.
4th Nothing else makes you feel so great, as the knowledge that you and your partner are together.
5th If pokłócisz with your partner, your anger usually goes pretty quickly and realize that nothing is more important than the fact that they both eventually expelled from yourself is what I have at heart.
6th Your partner will never ask you to choose between him and someone in your family or friends. If you choose / ever gotten someone else certainly was an important reason for this and it was only your own, independent decision.
7th Neither you nor your other half, you do not want to test fidelity and partner's feelings.
8th You have the impression that since you're with your partner, you are more resourceful.
9th If sex is a part of your relationship that leads you to the mutual desire and willingness to not give a proof of love and commitment or solicitation.
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